The problem with men is that they seldom cry. Through the years, men were viewed to be strong, cunning, and brave. All these time, these men have been living in this stereotypical society that demands so much from them. Perhaps this is the reason why they were not able to live a life that is free from judgments and criticisms; a life they could live by just being themselves. These men behind their muscular built puts up a front showing the whole world that they are strong and brave and that they are of total control to everything. Even in times when they are down and helpless, they still pretend to be calm and strong. This is because they are afraid to show their emotional side and what they truly feel deep within with the fear of being labeled as weak and coward. It seems like the act of crying is a taboo. Still, no one can blame them for it is the society itself that has molded them.
“Boys don’t cry.” That is what people say. But don’t you find it unfair? In the real sense of crying, it is not really a girl thing at all. Crying per se has its own biological basis. Crying is part of human nature. It is a normal thing to cry. It is basically there for survival purposes but with the society we live in, the real sense of crying has been corrupted. What these men should understand is that crying is something not to be ashamed of. I appreciate those men who cry. Once in a while, they also need to cry and pour out all those emotions because crying is indeed healthy for it allows a person to be free of stress, of anxiety, and somehow it makes us feel relieved.
The problem with women is that they are always viewed inferior to men. Women are viewed weak, coward, and somehow helpless. I thought we already surpassed that state of gender inequality but look at who are on top of all those big companies right now. Henry Sy, Lucio Tan, the Ayala’s? They are men.
This all started during the Spanish colonial era when the rights of women were abused. They think that women should stay in the house and take care of the children, cook, and everything. Aren’t they insane? I mean we have equal rights and capabilities.
Women are not weak! They are just emotional but at least they are able to express effectively not like men. Women can do what men can so why put a barrier between these two sexes?
I also think that the problem with women is that they are very unpredictable. Sometimes they are timid but sometimes they become wild. Sometimes quite but sometimes talkative. I heard many boys complain that girls are unpredictable and moody. That’s true. I myself would say that women are unpredictable. I also don’t know why.
Anyways, that’s all that I can say and thanks for reading my blog.
“Boys don’t cry.” That is what people say. But don’t you find it unfair? In the real sense of crying, it is not really a girl thing at all. Crying per se has its own biological basis. Crying is part of human nature. It is a normal thing to cry. It is basically there for survival purposes but with the society we live in, the real sense of crying has been corrupted. What these men should understand is that crying is something not to be ashamed of. I appreciate those men who cry. Once in a while, they also need to cry and pour out all those emotions because crying is indeed healthy for it allows a person to be free of stress, of anxiety, and somehow it makes us feel relieved.
The problem with women is that they are always viewed inferior to men. Women are viewed weak, coward, and somehow helpless. I thought we already surpassed that state of gender inequality but look at who are on top of all those big companies right now. Henry Sy, Lucio Tan, the Ayala’s? They are men.
This all started during the Spanish colonial era when the rights of women were abused. They think that women should stay in the house and take care of the children, cook, and everything. Aren’t they insane? I mean we have equal rights and capabilities.
Women are not weak! They are just emotional but at least they are able to express effectively not like men. Women can do what men can so why put a barrier between these two sexes?
I also think that the problem with women is that they are very unpredictable. Sometimes they are timid but sometimes they become wild. Sometimes quite but sometimes talkative. I heard many boys complain that girls are unpredictable and moody. That’s true. I myself would say that women are unpredictable. I also don’t know why.
Anyways, that’s all that I can say and thanks for reading my blog.
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